Sunday, July 4, 2010

"That Darn Cat"

Well, I arrived in Manassas, VA late Saturday night, (1:30 am) almost 15 hours to the minute from door-to-door. The drive went well, and considering it was a holiday weekend I am very happy with how well traffic was flowing. I can't even say that I saw an accident or anything. There were a lot of Police on the roads, so that was nice to know.

My move out of Florida did take a little longer then I hoped. I was trying to leave on Friday, July 2nd, but when Thursday night came around I realized I had more stuff in my ex-wife's place then I thought. So it still took me most of Friday to clear out all my stuff and to pack / load my truck, but all in all that too went smooth enough, or as smooth as something like that could.

The trip to VA is part business, part social, and a lot of life changing. This is the next step in my Off The Grid Journey, but this is a bitter sweet move. Like any journey, one must close a door and leave some things behind before finding what is around the next corner. Leaving Florida was more then just moving away from the Sunshine State, it was the end of the final chapter in my marriage. It was leaving one of the few homes I have lived in for more then 2 years straight since 1979 and it was saying Good-Bye to some friends who may not be on this earth that much longer.

I do have to admit, times like these interest me, they make me sit up and look at what I have or who I care about. I have spent most of my childhood and all of my adult life moving from place to place, year after year, but since it's been seven years since I last moved, I have forgotten what one learns from leaving one place and moving to a new location. A lot of the people and belongings I left in Florida were not as hard to say Good-Bye to as I thought they would be, but there was one thing, "that darn cat" that some how found her way into my heart has given me the biggest heartache since I started packing. It is very interesting how one free cat, and for the record, I did not want, some how became my best friend through all the ups and downs that life has dished out lately.

So as exciting as the future might be right now, I am having a hard time feeling that excitement on this holiday weekend. A word to the wise, "There's no such thing as a FREE cat!"

Happy 4th of July!


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